Wednesday, December 9, 2009

memoirs of a modern female

Think back think back to the summer time
I would cross through these state lines
You were always on my mind

Wow. Looking back sends me on a TRIP
What was it like when I was younger?  I was always hurting. I was never truly happy.  I just tried to find ways to concur my hurt.  I went through times that I wish I couldnt remember.  I saw things I would kill to erase from my memory.  All of these things, but somehow here I am now.  3 months early at birth with a 2% chance of living? Yet here I am today.  Stronger then ever.  I have made mistakes.  Horrible mistakes. But thats not who I am anymore.  Ive become someone I am proud of.  Someone I can look at in the eye when I look in the mirror.  

For a long time I could look at myself in the mirror, but I could never look myself in the eyes.  Why?  I have no idea. I didnt want to face what lay beyond them?  I was ashamed?  I was scared?  All of the above? Most likely.

When I look back, i cant believe that person even existed.  but I am deep inside glad she did.  Glad I was able to make those mistakes and hurt those people.  If I hadnt, i wouldnt be who I am today, wouldnt have learned or helped the people I am now able to.

I am a new person and it all started July 18, 2009.  A day i couldnt ever forget. Coming out of that water I felt weightless, like everything that i had ever worried about or seen or been hurt by was gone.  I was a legit new person.  The old me was drained along with that warm baptismal water.  I look back on my life now with a purpose.
No longer just a big question mark.

How do you look back on your life?



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